I mean, when i walk down the road i see a beggar, i check through my purse i get some change i toss it at him, he's happy so i am, am content cause i just made him happy! And that beggar there needs the love, meeting a crying a child/hungry child down the lane and you toss the child a little something, beautiful you just made a child happy, that is love!
Showing love doesn't just mean between you and that special somebody, it could be you and the most special person in your life, which is YOU! Yeah, because it's when you are really happy then you are content, but you have to love you to be happy. You have to understand yourself to be content in life. Those steps would take help in conquering the world.
Subsequently, this love you have for yourself would be your only drive, cause when you look and tell yourself, Hey babe we are going to do this for us, not because of no-one approval, not make anyone happy but to make us happy and content! We just can't smile forever cause of someone being around, we have to smile for ourselves too when we are alone, when nobody is there to make us smile, then that's the journey of self-love.
Most of us don't love ourselves (pls don't argue) we are just in love with the idea we do love ourselves, you know how many times have you spoken to yourself? Asked your self questions? Buy yourself a gift? Smile with yourself alone (not scrolling through social media/thinking of what someone else says)........ None! Then you have to start, make it happen. It's not being crazy, it's being in love.
It's just the same way we are in love with our spouses, boyfriend/girlfriend/best friend, family, we would always want them to be happy and proud of us, now is the time to make yourself proud of you, you get home and congratulate yourself before anybody does, when you are happy with yourself everything with you would go in sync!
So, today you could take your self out for a dinner if no one is taking you, buy your self a gift, surprise your self, make YOU smile, maybe that's really what you need. You could join an outreach, give out to people, do whatever makes you happy, not someone else. Am still thinking of what ME needs *smilingface*, oh! I remember i have an outreach too, it totally makes me happy to see people happy!.
My soul gets satisfaction from putting a smile on people's face, even though sometimes it might seem all emotional for me, i forget am an emotional wreck, i might come out as a badass but it's just the looks, hahaha. So love, yeah you! Show some love out there, make you happy, and be awesomely amazing with your self.
Happy 💏 day darling!
